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The DLJ Goes Dark

11-26-06 3:45 A GMT-07

This will be my last post here at the DLJ blog. My decision to discontinue posting here is actually far more positive than it may seem. That’s because my current situation will allow me to focus on the thing that got me into activism and publishing the DLJ in the first place.

There are others who are quite ably covering the issues, such as Teri Stoddard, Wendy McElroy, and of course, Men’s News Daily and Mensactivism

The hundreds of good people all over the world I’ve met in the years since the DLJ was first launched (in 2001 as an e-mailed newsletter) have all taught me a lot, and given me the tools which I can use to effectively run a program that provides practical help for a group of people that sorely need it.

There are far too many of those who’ve helped along the way to list by name but my gratitude for each and every one of you is boundless.

I will be focusing my efforts on setting up a program for abused men in my local area of Yuma, Arizona. Under the auspices of the Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women, I will establish first an online presence, (at least part of that will be a blog here at Blog-City)  and then an in-person peer counseling group. We’ll see where it goes from there.

Otherwise, about six weeks ago, I launched a blog on cooking, the Elementary Chef, and just yesterday was asked to contribute material to Dean’s World, which is much more widely-read than the DLJ ever was. On Dean’s World I’ll be chronicling my efforts to get my abused men’s program up and running, as well as other things that present themselves.

Happy trails!

Renew! Redocorate! Rework!

08-16-06 9:12 A GMT-07

I've got a couple of book projects that need finishing, one of which is a resource manual for DAHM.  As you know, things are changing rapidly, as evidenced by these stories:

Wife charged with murder

Wife of former Seahawk Chad Eaton arrested

I'm also going to be doing some re-working of the blog, as Blog City has upgraded to a new version.

I have to say something here…

08-11-06 11:59 P GMT-07

There is yet another hunger strike by a disenfranchised father going on. I have been asked to support this action, and have ignored all requests.

That’s because this particular strategy has been proven wrong, not only by many good Irishmen in 1981 who might now be more concerned with the antics of their grandchildren had they lived. Also by a disenfranchised father I knew for some time.

His name was Len Miskulin. You will not remember him, since his work and his quest was to no avail. All that happened with Len was that he lost his kids, and lost his health.

He hung on for some 53 days, if memory serves. He had some publicity for a time, since he was the first; at least in the UK. He came out of it so damaged he told me if he’d known how bad it was he’d try something else.

It’s been about five years, and I’ve lost track, but if I could find him and drag Len here to the US, I’m sure he’d tell anyone trying this radical stunt to STOP!!!

Today there are far more effective ways to influence public opinion. On a personal level, the reality is that this kind of stunt only causes harm. You might get a couple of media mentions, but the truth is nobody today wants to hear about divorced men acting so irresponsibly they can’t even consider their own health.

That’s the way it plays.

Why on Earth would any court want to allow a man with so little concern for life to be the custodian of his children?

How does this make any sense???

It really doesn’t.

I know I got a lot of extremely angry and barely coherent e-mails from a guy. I remember asking a perfectly civil question, and he came back with nonsense. I was supposed to buy his full package without question.

Gentlemen, there are so many fucking loose cannons in this movement I despair of ever being able to make positive gain.

Now there are claimed anti-feminists supporting insanity, I have no idea what to think.

The mothers and wives of the 1981 Irish protestors had no benefits. Nowt but the body comin out after death.

Dave Winer is Right About Sexism

08-11-06 2:43 A GMT-07

Like a lot of other things, he's right about this, too.

Maybe I assign too much wonderfulness to this guy, but he was my blogfather in actuality. One day in early 2003, a media newsletter I got had a reference to Scripting News. Being a non-programmer myself, i wondered why it was this kind of deep geek lore merited a place among media references.

So I went, and read, and drank that particular Kool-aid. I've been a blogger ever since.

Entirely separate from anything Dave has ever done, I used my blog to work for men's rights, father's rights, and the most important : unserved victims of domestic violence. These were things I'd already been working on. I just used the blog to go further.

Even though we've exchanged a few e-mails over time, he still isn't quite sure who I am. That's OK, I really can't expect somebody who likely gets hundreds of real e-mails every day to focus on one quirky lady.

Yesterday he said this:

Men know what we have to do, we've had it drilled into us for at least a generation. But there's a long to-do-list for women, and because men have been forced into silence on this subject, that list hasn't had a chance to develop. Liz, it's time to bend over backwards to create safety for men to speak on this subject. Many of your colleagues are already doing this. There are still a few standouts, and you are one of them. No more gender-bashing, lecturing and name-calling, and no more tolerance for that. I will consider what you have said. Now it would be great if you would do the same.

The man understands the ideals of equality, and expects women to do the same. He is far more diplomatic and decent than I would be in the same situation.

As a woman of education and influence, I feel diminished and insulted by events such as BlogHer, because that is precisely what they are designed to do. They have been created in order to congregate angry women who feel the rules of society don't apply to them, add fuel to their discomfiture, and eventually verify their paranoid fears of an oppressive patriarchy.

They are certainly divisive. Feminism has always been about division, and disdain for those who will not believe. I wish those otherwise-intelligent, and decent women who have bought that mess of pottage that feminism really is would recognize that it's time to stop hating, time to stop blaming, and most important : time to stop setting women up as any kind of special class of anything!

...and let the rest of us live our lives with our men in peace.

There's a quite easy test to apply: if you think something said about a man is funny, try replacing a woman in there. If you think it's hateful when applied to a woman -- bingo! It's sexist.

I'm old enough to know that there are far more bad, hateful things being said about men today then there ever were said about women in the last forty years.

Nobody has any right to diss an entire class of people. Nor to make any presumptions about them.

I thank God that Dave Winer had the cojones to bring it up.

Storyblogging Carnival Needs Help

08-11-06 1:42 A GMT-07

Doc Rampage reports that only one entry was sent this time. That's not nearly enough! c'mon, kids, put on your writing boots and compose!

Remember, a short story can be as little as 500 words. That's called flash fiction. Everything does NOT hafta be a 30,000 word Heinlein piece.

Send here;

Dave Gudeman
http://docrampage.blogspot.com/

 

Category: Writing

The price of bread -- is your flour fresh? (Bread for Dummies)

posted 02-01-06

With the cost of a loaf of bread approaching or exceeding $4 a loaf, some people are thinking about baking their own.  I've been doing this for a long time; not just because of the cost, but because you can't beat the taste of a hot slice of bread, fresh from the oven. Not to mention there's a bit of comfort in knowing exactly what's in it.

It's not as hard as you think it is!

Even if you do bake your own bread from time to time, it's important to use flour that hasn't been sitting in the cupboard too long. Whole grain flours, such as wheat or rye, contain more of the oil from the grain than all-purpose white flour, and so you can't keep them as long. Sometimes even baking a loaf or two a month won't use up a 5-lb bag of whole-grain flour before it begins to go "off."

There is a solution, if your favorites include wheat and/or oat breads.

I make my own.

This is not as wacky as it sounds! If you've got a blender, all you need is some whole-grain ceral, of the kind you need to cook, and it only takes a few minutes to make enough flour for a loaf of homemade goodness. We're only talking about a cup or two at a time here, not pounds. Recipes that produce the kind of big-and-fluffy loaf with the soft texture you're used to only use about a cup of whole-grain flour per 3-4 cups of all-purpose flour.  Here's what you do: pour 1 1/2 cups of the cereal into the blender, and run that sucker for a minute or two until it looks like flour. Simple. If you grind your cereal with a (measured) teaspoon of salt, that improves the flavor.

I like the 7 Grain Cereal from Wheat Montana Farms, but when I can't get that, I've used Kashi*, and just about any brand of "slow" oatmeal. (Not the instant stuff. Somehow I don't think you want peaches-and-cream bread with your salami. Yeeccchhh!) The Kashi BTW can produce a loaf that's as soft as white bread, and has no detectable little flecks of grain. It's pure beige, and might be a good idea for sneaking the good stuff into the tummies of picky kids.

It's also helpful to add a little ascorbic acid (Vitamin C) which helps soften the texture, assist the rise, and brighten up the otherwise-dull grains. I take a very sharp knife and scrape off about 1/6 of a 1000mg horse pill ;>) right into the flour. This is something I do with any bread. Yep, you can buy the powder at baking suppliers, but why? 

I also now use white pepper in any bread I make that will be used for dinner rolls or sandwich bread.  There is an amazing improvement to the flavor, with no noticeable "peppery" taste.

You can either replace your own self-created flour with the wheat or oat flour called for in whatever recipe you may have and like, or you can use my recipe, here:

Whole Grain Bread for Slackers

Makes 1 loaf, or 8-12 rolls

1 envelope dry yeast CHECK THE DATE
1 cup whole grain flour
3-4 cups all-pupose or bread flour
1 - 1 1/4 cups water (use the larger amount of water if you live in the desert, where flour gets dry sitting on the shelf in the warehouse)
1T sugar
1 1/2 tsp salt
1/4 tsp ground white pepper
a scraping of vitamin C
2 T Vegetable oil, or olive oil, or whatever oil you like
If you are at a high altitude, above 5000 feet, this recipe may not work as expected. I've had trouble getting things to brown at high altitudes.

Heat the water in the microwave 15-30 seconds, or until the container is comfortably warm in your hands. (85-100 degrees)

Pour this in your large mixing bowl, along with the sugar and the oil. Allow the mixture to sit for about 15 minutes, or stand there and watch it "wake up." (Little kids like watching this, and it beats busying yourself with other tasks if you later find your yeast is dead. This step is called, "proofing.")

Once the yeast has proved itself worthy, mix the vitamin C, salt and pepper with the whole grain flour, and proceed either with Method I or Method II. DO NOT PUT THE SALT RIGHT INTO THE YEAST MIXTURE. MAKE SURE YOU MIX IT WITH FLOUR FIRST.

Method I -- for later

Mix the whole-grain flour into the yeast mix, and pour the white flour gently on top. DO NOT STIR. Cover with plastic wrap and place it in the fridge overnight. Proceed with the mixing, kneading and baking in the morning, or as much as two days later. When you get to it. It will proceed happily without you.

Method II -- for right now

Mix in the whole-grain flour, and 3 cups of the white. Stir until you've got a cohesive mass. (or single glob) turn out onto floured board. Knead for three to four minutes, adding flour to keep it from being sticky, and return to bowl. Cover with plastic wrap. Allow to rise until double in bulk, about 1 to 1 1/2 hours, depending on how hot it is in your kitchen. Proceed to SHAPING.

MIXING - KNEADING - BAKING

If you've chosen Method I, you'll need to mix your dough, and knead it now. It's already risen once, so proceed to SHAPING.

Method II -- SHAPING

For a loaf: Pat out the dough into a shape about as long and three times as wide as your (greased) bread pan. Don't slam it or beat it -- pat it down and fold it over, much as you'd fold a letter.  Put it in the pan.

For rolls: pat the dough out into a circle about 12 inches across. Cut it like a pie into the desired number of rolls. Roll each segment up, and place in 9x13 or 7x11 (greased)baking pan.

For either rolls or bread, spray or gently spread with butter. Allow to rise 1 to 1 1/2 hours, or until double.

BAKING

For rolls -- 25-30 minutes at 375 degrees.

For bread -- 35-40 minutes at 375 dergees

No harm in baking 5 more minutes if your bread or rolls are not brown enough.

If you are at a high altitude, above 5000 feet, this recipe may not work. I've had trouble getting things to brown at high altitudes.

Also note; I wanted to link to Kashi, but it seems maybe they have discontinued the product. Bummer.

 

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